Well I had no choice but to come out. My best friend came out to her mother, and her mother and my mother are friends (while coming out to her mother she told about me, but her mother already knew she just wasn't sure). So one day my friend's mother comes over to my house and has lunch with my mother (my mom works out of the house) and tells her everything that my friend is a lesbian that I am a lesbian, and all this other bull shit. She told my mother that I was sleeping around with a lot of women, which was true at the time but that is not something that I want my mother to know. All this happens while I am in the ninth grade. (i am still in the ninth grade) So now some people at school know, and I really don't care what people think about me. But anyway my best friend tells me that this girl likes me and I was like cool cause she is fine as hell. So a week later me and the girl are together and have been ever since. She is my first real girlfriend. I love her for what she has made out of me, and changed me from a player to a one woman-woman.