I came out 100% 20 years ago, it was not the easiest thing to do. My family was not as supportive then as they are today. I met the woman of my dreams, living not two apartments away but every time I spoke to her she'd just say Hello and continue on her way. I was shy but that did not take too long to get over (2 years) LOL. We have been together now for 18 years and she is my soul mate, companion, lover, and friend. There is no life without her. I thank God everyday for sending her into my life.