I'm a 29 year old gal who is just coming to terms with being a lesbian. I have trouble saying the word out loud and can't imagine telling my family and friends that I'm not who they think I am. I've always been with men, but have never enjoyed the sex or their company that much. They're more trouble than they're worth, to be honest. I would like to find a girl who is like me - unsure of herself in this new role, yet wanting to stop hiding.