My story is very different then everyone else's. See i knew that i was gay practically from the day i was born. I have always been very mature and honest regardless of the consequences that i would go through. I had my first girlfriend when i was nine and i loved her a lot. We were together for more then ten years, and all the while she was cheating on me with guys. I came out when i was ten or so. My mom and one of my sisters where very mad, but my dad and oldest sister was happy that i finally told them what they already knew. That i liked girls and not guys. I never had sex with a woman, not even my first girl friend, until i knew that i was going to spend the rest of my life with her. It wasn't until 2000 that i found that woman, and so i was 20 when i lost my virginity. I have never been with a guy for so much as a kiss and i never will be. I just want to let you know that it is better to come out early so that your friends and family have time to come back into your life if they decide to leave. I know that they will come back if they truly love you, and hopefully they do.