It was a hot summer day in 1995, a friend and I that I found very attractive had gone out to a club, both of us had a tad bit of alcohol in us, we had a blast that night dancing and chatting with friends. as the night came to a close we went to her house where my two children, both in diapers, we asleep under the care of a sitter. I went to bed with my friend thinking nothing of it, and then it happened, she made "the move" I thought I was going to die, well all turned out well, and the next morning after I took a shower and had time to collect myself and realize what had really happened I realized I was a lesbian, back then I called lesbians, or myself the "L" word, I couldn't even say it so how could I be a lesbian? Well I went home, to my husband, yes I said my husband, I was married, I couldn't live with my secret that I had known for so long.

So in August of 1995 I divorced my husband the father of my two children. I thought I was crazy, "how could I do this to my children, how could I do this to my family?" I thought I had lost my mind, and I went through a 5 year relationship with a woman, it was horrible she was abusive both to me and my children. so I decided to leave her, well we went out one last time and I met my dream woman, I knew it to good to be true, she was tall, long legs, nice tushie, beautiful eyes, full lips, long silky hair, I thought no way will this girl like me, next thing I knew she was hitting on me. 6 months later I was moving in with her, my mother loves her, my family which is very un-accepting of most people, of course didn't like it, I was so in love though I just pushed her in their faces, I think just to say "ha ha, I'm in love" well my family to this day has nothing to do with me or her, and we have move 500 miles to get away from them, I miss my mother and my mother is very accepting of us she has been so good to us. if you would have told me 10 years ago I am where I am now I never would have believed you, I have never been so happy and I have never loved a woman so much, and never gotten so much love in return. so as of October 11, 2002, I will be 8 years old in coming out years, I came out on national coming out day 8 years ago. if you think you are a lesbian, or maybe just curious don't care what others think, just take your time and most of all, make yourself happy...