I am only 16, but I have figured out that I am bisexual. I am not quite sure if I want to go totally to women, but I know I prefer girls over boys. but anyway.... I have come out to all of my friends. Everyone in my school knows, it doesn't bother me. If people in school don't like me because of it then it is their problem. But my problem is coming out to my family - mainly my father. He is very religious and he looks down on homosexuality, very much so. He thinks it is one of the worst sins ever! I only live with my father, I don't know my mom, and my father's side of my family is very homophobic I guess you could say. I have a gay cousin, and when the family found out they disowned him, and I am pretty sure the same would happen to me. I think my father would blame himself and he would make me go to church and stuff like that. it is a very scary thing, but I know that I want to have a girlfriend before I tell him, that way he knows that I am serious.