I may be a little young for this site. But it's always good to have a "youths" opinion. Because that is what it is, an opinion.

I'm a 17 year old bisexual female. I spent the last year of my life in a relationship with another woman. Cooking, cleaning, the whole nine yards of a housewife, except kids, but our pets were our kids. This is how I came out...

I was 16, she was 18. The more mature, older woman. The teacher, the student. I was a tri girl. I would tri anything once - As long as it couldn't hurt me. She wanted to kiss someone with a tongue ring. I figured why not. We kissed... sending shock waves through me. Amazing me that I could sexually desire a woman. That night we began dating.

She pestered me to tell my family and friends. I did, I sat down my mom, and ex-step dad, and said, I'm bisexual. They took it fine, only saying, "I was wondering when you were going to tell us." and my grandma took it the same way.

Until I just read an article in your forum. I was still very confused on my sexuality. Even though I had been with this other woman for nearly a year and we were engaged. What the person said in the forum was right...

Bisexuality, Lesbian, Gay, homosexual... it's just words. The only thing that makes us bisexual, lesbian, gay or homosexual... is the ability, the gift to love a person of the same sex. It is not about sex, you can have sex with everyone. But you can not love everyone. it is about creating a loving, bond between you and a person of the same sex. Be it a man or a woman.

Thank you for whomever wrote that. You just clarified a lot of things for me...