QUESTION: How do you get over someone? I mean I've been going out with this girl for 10 months, then she breaks up with me, it hurt like hell, and I couldn't do a thing about it, so I went on and dated this other girl, and she dumped me too. I'm in such a downer and I have no idea what do now, I feel nothing but emptiness and confusion, constantly thinking something is wrong with me..

Lost In Confusion

ANSWER: You need to learn to love you before you can love someone else. You are jumping from one relationship to the next, learning nothing about yourself, your needs or what you expect from a relationship.

My advice is that you take a year off from dating women to get to know yourself. You would be surprised how much happier you will be when you are not running away or to something.

Good luck!