QUESTION: I am 23, divorced and a mother of two. I have never had feelings for a woman before. This girl that I have been close friends with forever, told me the other night that she was bi and that she was attracted to me and then she kissed my socks off. And I kissed back. I have never reacted to a kiss the way I did to that one. I know I have feelings for her and that I do find her attractive... Now what do I do? Am I bi or gay? Any ideas?

~ Extremely Confused

ANSWER: Now you take yourself off to PFLAG and sign up for some of their support groups. This will allow you to explore your orientation in a comfortable atmosphere, and if you discover you aren't a lesbian or bisexual woman, then at least you have learned something about the rest of humanity.

Good luck!